Don’t look back, you are not going that way. Heard that one before?! I am sure every one of us at one point look back and analyze how things turned out. There are some things that we are extremely proud of and some thing that we just do not want to remember. That’s very common considering we are not perfect and only way to get better is to learn from our mistakes. Here are a few things to remember when you look back at things!
IT’S A TEST.
It does not matter how many times you blame yourself for what you did or what you should have done, there is no way you could change things. Remember nothing is permanent in life. Everything changes and evolves just like you!
IT’S A HISTORY.
Remember the boring history class you had to take in order to graduate from high school, think of your past like that. It’s there for you to remember and build something from it or just totally forget about it. I personally chose to forget, but everyone has different ways of connecting or disconnecting their past to current and future events.
IT’S A LIFE LESSON.
Yes, you are human and you make mistakes, but that does not mean you can keep making the same mistake over and over. You would be wasting your life. When you are making a decision next time, think about what you did before and what happened. I am going to sound like a lawyer when I say this, but remember that there is always a loophole even when things seem impossible at first!
IT’S A MEMORY.
Trust me I get it, this is your past and you did things that made you who you are today, but remember its over now. You are not living in that moment anymore. You are in this moment and every single minute you think about past is dragging you down. Not here to tell you to erase your past, but here to tell you to just live in the moment and see what life may bring!